Enjoying life as an expat in The Hague, The Netherlands. Lots of partying, and of course travel across Europe and some around the world. May 2005-September 2007.
Thursday, September 20, 2007
The Last Day
The rest of the evening will just be a quiet evening home with my boyfriend. Actually, it's more likely I will probably start panicking in a few hours trying to get everything into my 2 suitcases.
Well, next time you hear from me, I should be back Stateside. So, as they say it here - tot ziens, doei, dag (take your pick).
Friday, September 14, 2007
Immaturity Levels Rising
A bit off the subject, but it's only in the past month or so that I've realized I'm 33 and what that means. It means I need to get married now and pregnant next year! You think I'm joking? All of my friends are naturally around my age, and most of them are sweating it. 2 of my friends who are married are having a hard time conceiving. While this article says women over 35 can have a healthy pregnancy, it's not oh so reassuring when it starts rattling off the risks that are increased. I've heard before that women nearing the age of 35 start panicking to have a child, but it never occurred to me I'd be one of them. For starters, I hate kids. I never wanted one, and I still don't. Then again, will I want one when I'm old? It's too late when I'm 60 something and lonely to say "I wish I'd had some kids back then." So what's someone like me to do? As I mentioned in my previous blog post, I have tons of things I want to do that doesn't involve kids in the equation. I could adopt later if I decide to have kids and can't have any, but that's not as much fun as having your own. Particularly as someone who get hives when surrounded by children, I probably have a better chance at loving and nurturing my own flesh and blood. Assuming I have, or can find, an able and willing partner, how do I convince myself to have kids? Supposedly, despite the hard work, parenting is very rewarding. So, should I just take the leap and get pregnant? Maybe that'll make me mature. Anyways, for now, don't go expecting any little dancingnomads anytime soon. Even tho I'm starting to hear this big tick-tock in the back of my head, I have no intention of having any babies yet.
One Week To Go
On a brighter note, I'm looking forward to my life back in the U.S. There's a lot I want to do - develop my career, learn Spanish, take up martial-arts again, go for my PhD (maybe), do volunteer work, etc. I have a lot of friends near DC to catch up with too. Of course, there's also my brothers and their family who I haven't seen in almost a year.
Perhaps I will change my blog title to 'Living in America.' Having said that, I have no intention of stopping travel. I will be more limited in my vacation time back home but I will just have to make the most of what I have. For the moment, I am thinking about a Guatemala/Belize trip in the spring, and then a China trip in the fall. Until then, I'm stuck going where my work might take me, or places I can go on weekends. Will I survive??
Friday, September 7, 2007
Ørland, Norway
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Moving Pains (continued)
What did go well though, was the check out with the makelaar. He seemed quite happy with how clean I left the apartment. The only problem I had was that he thought it would be better if I had the final bills for utilities sent to the owners and have them pay it out of the deposit. Unfortunately, it takes 4-8 weeks for these bills to be sent, and the owners have an obligation to give me back my deposit within 2 months according to my contract. There is also nothing in my contract about having to pay the final bill out of my deposit. So, I insisted the final bill be sent to me so I could pay it and get my deposit back sooner - hopefully before I close my Dutch bank account.
Oh, I made one last try to change my mailing address without making a visit. It turns out there is a section on the Dutch site (not the English site) that lets you change address. So I thought, great... until the site came back with a form I had to print and mail into ABN Amro. I couldn't even get my local bank rep to use my work address they already have on file as the mailing address. Stupid bank.
Sunday, August 26, 2007
Good-bye, Harstenhoekstraat
Thursday, August 16, 2007
Moving Pains
I began moving preparations some time ago, but as I prepare to move out of my apartment end of this month, I have to yet again deal with terrible Dutch services. I called ABN AMRO, my bank, to inform them I was closing my account, and also to let them know of an address change. I can understand having to go into their office to close an account, but I don't see why I have to go into their office for a simple change of address. I need to change my address few weeks before closing my account and I don't want to make two trips to the bank, especially for something so trivial as an address change. I can't call it in, fax it in, or email it in. Their website doesn't even allow you to change your information. If their on-line banking services is secure enough to perform transactions through, why can't I change my address there also?
Then there's Eneco Energy. They can't prepare the final bill until 6-8 weeks after my move date. I'll be in the States by then! Based on my arrival experiences with Dutch service, I can already imagine things will only get worse from here. Not looking forward to the mess at all.
Monday, August 13, 2007
Prague, Czech Republic
I had no plans to take anymore trips this summer, but I decided there was just no point hanging around Holland so I went to Prague this weekend. Unfortunately, I am completely jaded. Prague to me is just another 'pretty' European city that I've seen enough of. I don't even think it's one of the prettiest cities in Europe, and it's so over-hyped. The famed Charles bridge was so over-crowded with tourists that I couldn't even see the bridge when I was on it. The Brugge trip last weekend was somewhat nicer if just for the fact that I got some delicious chocolates out of it. I figured Prague wouldn't excite me so much, but nevertheless, it's my goal to see as much of this world as possible.
The first half of Saturday was spent mostly around the Prague Castle. We saw the St. Vitus Cathedral, St. George Basilica, and some galleries. Everything was ho-hum until I stepped into the Daliborka Tower and came across their collection of torture instruments. I found it so fascinating that the next day I actually went to another Medieval Torture Museum in the city center. It was definitely worth the visit. I learned a lot about different torture methods that you normally would not hear about (probably because it's too disturbing for public television or Hollywood movies). The museum claims the worst torture to be impalement. While the museum's image of impalement did draw the biggest gasp out of me, I thought sawing was quite nasty too.
The rest of the time in the city was spent mostly walking around and meeting up with a friend from college. We wanted to check out the Technical Museum there, but it was closed for renovations. We went instead to their National Musuem, which was more like a natural history museum. I found the Natural History museums in NYC and at Smithsonian much better tho (and not just because it's in English!) We were tempted go check out the Sex Machines Museum instead, but we were too short on time :(
Friday, August 10, 2007
Tips for Weather Forecasting?
Monday, August 6, 2007
Brugge, Belgium
Aveda in the Hague
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
Simon the Apprentice
24
Season 1 was mostly about preventing an assasination attempt on a presidential candidate and saving Jack's family from the same terrorists who try to kidnap them for leverage. It's got a totally unexpected ending and I'm looking forward to season 2.
Monday, July 16, 2007
Heroes

I just finished watching Season 1 of Heroes. I was so hooked it took me just about a week to finish watching all 23 episodes (42 minutes each). The show is about these people who begin to discover that they have super powers. Naturally, some try to take over the world while others save the world. Yeah, it sounds like it should be a comic book but hey, did you not like the movie version of Superman, Batman, or the X-men? Heroes is also much better made with its complex plot cleverly revealed in each episode. Not to mention there are several hotties in the show. Yeah, the above is my fav - Milo Ventimiglia, who plays Peter Patrelli. He also played Rocky's son in Rocky Balboa.
Sunday, July 8, 2007
The 7 New Wonders of the World: Results
Monday, July 2, 2007
Switzerland
Day 1: Zermatt & the Matterhorn
Day 2: Locarno
Since Switzerland was a small country, we thought it would be hard to escape the rain that was expected over the next few days. Christian had a great idea though, to go to Locarno. Locarno is a town off of Lago Maggiore in the Italian part of Switzerland. It supposedly gets 2200 hours of sunshine a year, most out of any place in the country. While the weather this day wasn't good, it was supposed to be fine from Tuesday. Most of this day was spent enjoying views from the high mountain passes. While most people, or guys, probably would enjoy the driving on the tight turns along the mountain edge, I often had thoughts of the car sliding off down the cliff.
Day 3: Valle Verzasca
Although we didn't hike there, we did make a stop in Lavertezzo where we saw the popular bridge Ponte dei Salti. It was indeed a beautiful area, but a bit over run by a tourist. There is also a big dam on the way into the valley. There is also the Froda waterfall. If you get a chance, definitely do the entire hike. I wish I did.
Day 4: San Gottardo
On this day we were heading up to the Interlaken area, but we decided to do a hike along the way on the moutain pass of Saint Gothard. It started in Saint Gothard, a place that had like 4 buildings. We had a rocky start, not knowing exactly where the trail was. Probably we should have invested in a real map rather than the cheap trail guide we had. Then again, it wouldn't have mattered because we lost it about half way through the hike. Not even an hour into the hike, we started to notice some dodgy looking clouds and thought about turning back. The hike was meant to be 4.5 hours and it could be damn miserable at 2500 meters if bad weather struck. We decided to take our chances and kept on trucking though. It seemed like a rather long climb for me to go up 400 meters in 2 hours over the first ridge. Once over the ridge tho, the rest was not so bad. The trail took us around few more lakes and some snow covered areas. We weren't really sure if we were going the right way, but we saw another couple coming the opposite direction and was able to confirm we were going in the right direction. It was a good thing because there were some snow flurries by now. By the time we got to the last 30 minutes of the hike at a lower altitude, it was full blown rain. But it felt sooooo good when it was all done. I liked this hike a lot too.
Day 5: Jungfrau region (Stechelberg - Oberhornsee)
Today we decided to tackle something close to where we were staying in Stechelberg. Fortunately, there was a trail that started right behind our hotel. Turned out to be a pretty good one too. It was a few hours climb to Obersteinberg where we had lunch with a fantastic view of the alps (above) and a waterfall. The trail then continued onward to Oberhornsee, a pretty blue lake, and then back down. We made some bad decisions on the way down tho and took the steepest way down I think. That was rather painful. This day we walked for at least 7 hours.
Day 6: Jungfrau region (Allmend-Klein Scheidegg)
I must say that while I love hiking, I got my fix to last me a while. In the meantime, I need to get back into the routine of working out and being fit again. It's summer so I have no excuses. A work out... everyday... well almost everyday... starting... tomorrow :P
Day 6: Bern
We decided to leave on a Saturday so that we didn't have to do the 10 hour drive all in one go. On this day we drove up to Germany through a stop in Bern. You'd never know this place was the capital of Switzerland. It's small and charming. We walked around the place for only an hour. Einstein's house might have been cool to see though. Maybe next time....
Versailles, France
The day after the air show we decided to go to Versailles. I had been there once before back in January of 1998, but I had wanted to see it during the summer for the gardens. The palace is beautiful, and so are the gardens. Unfortunately weather wasn't cooperating so half of the time we were getting wet. Still, there was enough sunshine at times to enjoy it all.
I find Versailles interesting mostly because of the history behind the place. If you're not already familiar with the biography of Marie Antoinette, I suggest checking out the story (and not the Hollywood version of it).
Paris Air Show

The highlight of my day was seeing Johnny, a.k.a. Mr. Travolta. I noticed a crowd of people gathering so naturally my nosy self had to go look. Then there comes this guy strutting along and posing in front of jets like he's a super model. I'm thinking... who the hell is this guy?? My eye sight is not so great. When he got closer, about 5 minutes later, I finally recognized him as John Travolta. By then I had missed some great photo ops but I continued to follow the crowd to play paparazzi and got couple of photos. I had this urge to yell out "I love you, Johnny!!", like the typical crazy American. However, seeing how reserved everyone else was, I thought I'd keep to myself. Besides, I wasn't ready to be escorted off of the premises just yet.
Thursday, June 14, 2007
The New 7 Wonders
I can't remember exactly which ones I voted for, but I think it was the Great Wall, Petra, Easter Island, Stone Henge, Machu Picchu, Taj Mahal, and Angkor Wat. I think the Eiffel Tower, Opera House, and Kiyomizu Temple ranks towards the bottom. I would not have nominated them to begin with. There's about 6 places that I haven't actually been to yet (e.g. Great Wall, Easter Island) so I can't comment on the list as a whole. Of the places I have been to, Machu Picchu (below) and Angkor Wat ranks very high on the 'wow' factor. The Taj is beautiful. Petra is also pretty cool. I can't wait to see the Wall and the Moai statues.
Anyways, seems American and European participation in this first world-wide vote is pretty low. Be part of history in making - go vote!
Thursday, May 31, 2007
Top 10 Cities
Top 10 Cities I Would Visit Again
I'm actually not really a big city person. I prefer nature or activity travel, but visits to major cities are often more convenient. You can get a good cultural experience from most cities also. The rankings below were determined first by pure gut feeling, and then justified afterwards.
- Sydney - I'm not sure I can really say that I've seen Sydney since I spent most of my 2 weeks there bumming on Manly Beach. I honestly don't remember doing much else. I think I spent a day in the city, visiting the Opera House and Bondi Beach. Oh, a few days were spent up in the Blue Mountains where I hiked all day and swam (at a local pool) in the afternoon, everyday. I could do this all over again.
- Washington, D.C. - There are tons of nice things to see here - monuments, memorials, museums, zoo, etc. etc. Plus good nightlife and the restaurants are up and coming. There are enough greens (lawns, trees, etc.) to make a nice atmoshphere to stroll around in. A fountain here and there to relax by. Some of the country's best museums are there. The best part of it all? It's all FREE! My last endorsement of the city is here.
- Tokyo - This is practically my second home. I lived here for two years and have family and friends there. I'm back here at least once every other year. The crowds suck a bit, but if that can be overlooked, you have the craziest place like no other. Food's great, service is great, and everything is just oh-so-cute. Some posts from my recent trip to Tokyo over the holidays are here and here.
- Paris - There's a lot of nice places to stroll around in Paris. The cafes are charming, and you can get crepes everywhere. Lots of great museum too. Nearby Versailles is also a place I'd like to go again. First time there was a week back in '98. Also had a short trip there back in Oct.
- London - It's sort of like New York (see #6), but with more history. You won't get bored in this city with all the different sites, parks, and day trips you can do from here. I lived here for four months but I wouldn't complain if I had to go back. The only downside is the strength of the GBP. Post on last trip there is here.
- New York - Another former residence (for 2.5 years) where you can get and do anything. Museums, broadway shows, night clubs, restaurants, Central Park, karaoke boxes, you name it... you will never be bored. And with such a diverse crowd of people living in the city, you are bound to meet some people with similar interests as you. You can find a club or a social circle for just about everything. The mountains are also only a few hours away for some decent hiking and snowboarding. Post on last trip there is here.
- Capetown - The best city in South Africa bar none. The beaches are crystal blue (albeit cold) with white sand, table mountain is fun to climb, you can see Penguins, you have a waterfront, and you're in one of the most beautiful countries I've ever visited. Your dollar or euro will go a bit further than the above cities also.
- Kyoto - A must see in Japan. Been there three times or so but I keep going back to the same stupid temples because I like them. I need to check out some of the other ones though. In spring time when the cherry blossoms are in full bloom, it is just absolutely beautiful there.
- San Francisco - Home of the Ghirardelli chocolate factory. You can go there and get a free sample, and then go back again later when the shifts have changed. Chocolate isn't the only reason it's on the list either. This is a city surrounded by hills and water. Pretty neat. Plus, it's got a lot of Japanese influence being that it's on the West coast. The Golden Gate bridge is also pretty, and the cable cars are just charming.
- Hong Kong - I had a hard time picking this last one. I chose Hong Kong in the end because I was only there for two days (on a business trip at that) when I was there and I don't think that did it any justice. I like the Chinese culture and would like to spend more time in that part. I hope next year I will get to do the China trip I've been planning for 2 years now!
Top 10 Cities I'll Never Visit Again
As a good friend always reminds me - never is a really long time. So let me put it this way - these were the cities I thought sucked royally (imho). The only way I'd go back is if someone paid me to go.
- New Delhi - I was only there in passing on my way to Agra, but the 2 or 3 hours I was there was more than enough. The city was just filthy and crowded. I was also there with a group and we ended up getting split up because our taxi drivers took us to different places. Lucky for us we found each other in Agra.
- Athens - I was there 3 days and it was two too many. There is nothing to see or do there except Acropolis. For all the other frustrations I encountered there, read this post.
- Los Angeles - A massive sprawling city for the rich and famous. Hollywood is the only tourist site and touristy it is. It's just not worth the traffic to go into L.A. Stick to the surrounding areas like the beaches.
- Cairo - I had to go for the Pyramids. Aside from that tho, the people there were mostly rude and were always after your money. Check out my post on Egypt for more.
- Dubai - Three words sum up this place: traffic, construction, and boring. Oh, make that four: expensive. See my Dubai post for more.
- Durban - Anywhere where they tell you to take a taxi after dark, even though you're in a group, going to a destination that's about a five minute walk, can't be good. Aside from that, there's just nothing to do. (Get eaten by sharks at the beach?) It's just a place where backpackers can stock up on stuff you can only get from cities before trodding off to better places.
- Naha (Okinawa) - Yet another boring place. I think it would've been a lot nicer tho had I had some company and could rent a car to explore around. I was basically at the mercy of Japanese tours which shuffled you from one stop to another, with a break at a souvenir shop every chance possible.
- Cancun - Mexico's great, but Cancun isn't Mexico. It's about as touristy as it gets with every kind of American chain restaurants imaginable in existance there. The surrounding areas are great though, just bypass Cancun itself. See my Riviera Maya post for more.
- Rome - I just had too high of an expectation for this place. The place is overrated. You probably saw my recent post. I'll leave it at that.
- St. Petersburg - A lot of people say it is nice, but I just didn't see that. There is the Hermitage and few other things to see but not much else. I remember having a hard time finding a place to eat. The streets also seemed dead. Hardly saw anyone walking around. Then again, this was back in '96 when I was less experienced in traveling. Maybe I just didn't know where to look.
Btw, for your reference, here are the list of places I've been to. Perhaps next time I will do a top 10 list of places to see in general.
